Helping women over 40 grow in God, find true joy, and live with purpose.

Welcome

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

Matthew 11:28-30

Project: Me

do you feel like you've lost your way, are stuck in a rut, or are just going through the motions?

Have you hit your 40s and found that they look a lot different than you expected them to when you were younger?


It's easy to get overwhelmed during this time of your life. 


Your kids are getting more independent, or even moving out. 


Maybe you're in a job or career you hate, but feel like it's too late in life to change it. 


Your marriage may be strained, or even crumbling under years of stress. 


Add to that a bunch of body and hormone changes, and you end up feeling like you have gotten completely lost in the shuffle.


You just feel so restless.


Instead of that perfect life you thought you'd have by now, you instead find yourself waking up every day with a bucket full of regrets, feeling unfulfilled in your relationship, fearful of the future, mourning the loss of your 25-year-old body, and thinking thoughts like....


‘What if.’


‘If only.’


‘And what now?!’


'How do I even get back in touch with who I once was, or who I want to be?’


Good news....it's time to step into your future self....

I've been there

I'm 49 now, and my 40s have definitely been the toughest decade of my life. 


My major mid-life crisis spanned several years, and changed the entire trajectory of my life.


It started with divorcing after 16 years of being a married stay-at-home mom. 


I had to figure out how to support myself, I partied a lot, and I made LOTS of terrible decisions, many of which still haunt me to this day, including getting arrested. I then got remarried, had another baby in my 40s, and had to see my second husband through a three year period of addiction and mental illness.


So when I tell you I can relate to mid-life struggle, I mean I can relate.


When I look back now I can see that a lot of the hard things I went through came from the fact that I had lost my way. 


Had I known then what I know now there is no telling how much of that pain I could've avoided.


But thankfully God is in the business of cleaning up messes. He brought me out of the huge one I had helped to create, and brought me into a place of restoration, where I experienced more peace and joy than I'd known in years. 


During that time I learned how to change some things I was doing that were keeping me from God's best for my life. 


And now He has led me to help you do the same.

It's time for true change

Unfortunately nothing is going to magically change on its own going into this next year, with or without a New Year's Resolution


You have to do your part by consistently thinking differently, acting differently, and doing things differently.


But it can feel so overwhelming even just knowing where to start.


That's why I've put together a mentorship program to help you sort all of this out.


We often have the best of intentions to change things on our own, but fall short when we try to consistently follow through.


Having a guide or mentor to walk you through making positive changes towards spiritual and personal growth can make all the difference.


During our time together I will help you to....


  • rewire your brain to uncover and overcome the real reasons you feel unsettled and unhappy, so you can avoid a midlife crisis, and the life-damaging decisions that often go along with it
  • get back in touch with who you are and where you’re headed so you can get out of your rut and off the hamster wheel that’s exhausting you
  • reframe your relationship so you can increase closeness and intimacy and feel truly fulfilled, instead of just going through the motions
  • match the faith you’re wanting to the faith you’re living, so you can stop trying to keep everything under control and get rid of the fear that God won’t come through for you


Having someone in your corner regularly checking on you, encouraging you, and helping you sort things out makes you far more likely to stay on track and experience real change.

How will we get there?

This 8 week 1:1 Mentorship Program includes:

  • Personalized coaching via a 30 minute call each week
  • Unlimited email/messenger/Voxer support (whichever you prefer)
  • A new focus for each week, along with actionable steps given to ensure you are walking out what we've talked about, and staying on track throughout the program
  • Meaningful scriptures and devotions to accompany each week's focus
  • Additional resources to support you and further your growth


Who is this program for? 


  • It's for the woman who is exhausted from trying to keep everything under control because she fears God won’t come through
  • It's for the woman who feels completely overwhelmed and burnt out
  • It's for the woman who feels restless in her marriage, and maybe even flirts with her coworker for excitement
  • It's for the woman who is in a total rut and feels like there may be no way out without making a drastic life change
  • It's for the woman who doesn’t know who she is anymore
  • It's for the woman who feels angry, and she’s angry that she’s angry, and she’s embarrassed by it, but she doesn’t know how to fix it
  • It's for the woman who feels like she’s too much of a mess right now to pursue a relationship with the Lord
  • It's for the woman who has lost herself and her confidence so much that she’s taking that into the bedroom, shying away from intimacy
  • It's for the woman who feels unfulfilled and that there is nothing that can fill that hole
  • It's for the woman who knows she’s made for more but doesn’t know how to get there
  • It's for the woman who feels fearful of the future


If any of that resonates with you, then I believe that you were led to this page. Let's talk, before you head down a path that you were never meant to be on.

I know it's hard to make a decision like this

You're not sure if it's worth it, or if you'll get out of it what you need, or if it will really help you change your life for the better.


But I do believe you found this page for a reason. 


So all I ask that you do next are two things....


1) prayerfully consider if this mentorship program is for you

2) have the courage to move forward with it if you feel that God is leading you to do so


Right now I am offering the entire 8 week program for only $777. 


If you feel this program is right for you, but truly can't make payment in full right now, please contact me at the email address below for possible payment plan options.


Please know that since I work so closely with my clients I can only take a handful at a time, so spots are very limited.


If you know you are ready to take this next step then you can enroll in the program below right now. 


If you would prefer to start with a complimentary 'Reflect and Refocus' session, please click below to schedule. 


There is no obligation whatsoever to enroll in the program after the free session, but I would love for you to prayerfully consider if it may be right for you. 


You can schedule your free session right here.


I would be happy to answer any questions you may have via email. You can reach me at julie@graceover40.com.


Love,


Julie


(Disclaimer: This program is not meant to replace therapy, marriage counseling, and the like. I am not a certified counselor, or a medical professional. Please seek professional help first and foremost if you feel that is what you need.)

'Project: Me' 8 week program

$777.00
Pay with PayPal or a debit/credit card

(If you would prefer to use a payment plan please contact me at julie@graceover40.com for payment plan options.)